Justin's HIV Journal

Monday, November 14, 2016

#HIV Diagnosis Justin answers How did you find out you are positive—of course it was by testing but what led you to go and test for HIV?

H

i Justin—
Greetings from Accra. I cannot stop admiring your online posts and pictures and your positive attitude toward life. This makes me wonder if you are really HIV-positive because you do not fit the popular image of a person living with HIV as melancholy and lonely. Most people here do not disclose and are living in silence because of stigma. This brings me to the question: How did you find out you are positive—of course it was by testing but what led you to go and test for HIV? Did you have symptoms? What were they? How long after your exposure to the virus did you get tested?
These appear to be personal questions. It’s okay if you do not wish to answer any of them. Thanks and regards. Good health and blessings to you.
Justin's Answer can be found in the link below
http://www.aumag.org/2016/10/18/justin-time-october-2016/

Sunday, November 13, 2016

Justin B Terry-Smith talks #PrEP and Sexual Empowerment in the latest edition of Just*in Time from A&U Magazine





In the latest edition of A&U Magazine America's AIDS Magazine I talk to a reader about Sexual Empowerment and PrEP.  

1st step in #HIV #prevention is sexual health empowerment • JUST*IN TIME by Justin B.Terry-Smith.

Dear Justin—

I hope you get to read this because I’m in desperate need of an
answer about HIV prevention.

I actually met you years ago when you were the speaker at Howard University for Black AIDS Awareness. I was a freshman then and I didn’t know a lot about HIV. I think the reason why is because I didn’t know how to accept the fact that I was gay. When I finally acknowledged it, I thought about your presentation at Howard University. It scared me because I didn’t want to be HIV-positive. I had a boyfriend and we had sex only about twenty-five times. He was very abusive verbally at first and that really took a toll on my self-esteem; then he became physically abusive and would throw things at me in the house, punching me, smacking me, etc. I left him and now I have a new boyfriend.

My new boyfriend is amazing, but he is also HIV-positive.  He doesn’t want to use condoms but he wants me to go on PrEP; I kinda already know what I want to do but I really wanted to know what you would do in this situation. Do not worry—I’m not basing my decision on what you say, but I am going to take it into consideration.

—A

To see my answer to the reader please click on the link below:
http://www.aumag.org/2016/07/20/justin-time-july-2016/

Saturday, November 12, 2016

Justin's HIV Journal Videos Showcased at the Brooklyn Museum Exhibit!!




GREAT NEWS: Some of the videos from Justin's HIV Journal will be SHOWCASED in the Brooklyn Museum with other HIV Activists Mark S. KingCarol Leigh, Juanita Mohammed, Luna Luis Ortiz PhotographySouthern AIDS Living QuiltJames Wentzy and the late Nelson Sullivan (1948-1989) & Ray Navarro (1964-1990) The exhibit will officially open Dec. 1st (World AIDS Day) but there will be a free showing Saturday, December 3, 2016 from 7:00pm–9:00pm in which I will attend and be a part of a discussion panel at the end :-D <3 span=""> Wow I'm going to be showcased in the Brooklyn Museum!! WOW I did it!! NY here I come December 3rd see you there!!

Link for more information
https://www.visualaids.org/events/detail/10369

Sunday, August 14, 2016

#Serodifferent couples: How do u navigate the conversation about #PrEP & #HIV meds?



A&U Magazine's Just*in Time HIV Advice Column by Justin B Terry-Smith focuses on

#Serodifferent couples: How do u navigate the conversation about #PrEP & #HIV meds? JUST*IN TIME by @JustinBSmith79

Hope you’re doing well! Got a question you might know the answer to….So I’m negative and on Truvada as PrEP, but my boyfriend finally got on what I thought his doctor prescribed him, Truvada, but instead was Emtriva. Now I’ve done my homework and before I get out of sorts: Is Emtriva equal or effectively the same as Truvada? Just thought you might know more than me, who specializes in sales and not health. Any help would be appreciated.
—JCrew


Click on the link below to hear what Justin has to say about it.

http://bit.ly/2aCMlbZ

or click here

Friday, July 22, 2016

Justin's HIV Journal makes Healthline Media's Best HIV & STD Blogs of 2016




I am deeply honored and proud to say that Healthline Media has named Justin’s HIV Journal one of the best HIV & STD blogs of 2016.  I was surprised when I received this e-mail (copied and pasted below) from Healthline Media LLC.  This is amazing to me and I’m so glad that speaking out about something so passionate is giving to the common good of making awareness and education on HIV and other STI paramount.  It has been a little over 10 years that I’ve lived with HIV.  Justin’s HIV Journal is not alone in being one Healthline’s best HIV & STD blogs of 2016.  Here is the list of the top 18 2016 winners Blog.AIDS.gov, The Body: HIV/AIDS Blog Central, HIV/AIDS Advice from Verywell, HCV Advocate, Hep B Blog, HIV and ID Observations, HIV Negative Spouses, I’m Still Josh, Living in the Bonus Round, A Marine and HIV, My Fabulous Disease, My Journey with AIDS…. and More!, POZ’s Blog, Poz Life of Patrick, Shawn and Gwenn, The STD Project, and The Well Project.  I’m humbled as well, because the other blogs named above are so amazing and informative. 

The Letter from Healthline Media
Hi Justin,

Congratulations! Your blog has made Healthline's list of the Best HIV/STD Blogs of 2016! Healthline's editors selected each winner based on their reach to educate, inspire, and empower their readers with frequent updates and high quality information. We created a badge to help you publicize your achievement, and I encourage you to embed the badge on your site and share your 2016 status with your followers.

Winners list: 
http://www.healthline.com/health/hiv-aids/best-blogs-of-the-year
Badge to embed: 
http://www.healthline.com/health/hiv-aids/best-blogs-badge

Thanks for providing a great resource to the HIV/STD community. I will be happy to answer any questions and assist you with embedding the badge on your site.

King Regards,
Nicole Lascurain [ Assistant Marketing Manager ]
Healthline Media, Inc.
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Justin's HIV Journal: Justin's Black, Gay and Jewish?!?!?



HIV is a horrible disease but one thing that I realize, at least in my opinion, is that spirituality does help with stress and release.  Being stressed with HIV is never a good thing, it only allows the HIV to hit your body, mind and soul harder than before.

In my journey living with HIV I converted from Christianity to Paganism.  Paganism is older than Christianity and I felt very comfortable with my decision.  But I also had to understand that in my family heritage I’m originally supposed to be Jewish.  So this is how it going a long time ago one of my Great Great Great Grandmother on my mother’s side was intimate with a Jewish man.  From the very beginning it was taboo.  At that time there was no way a black woman and Jewish man could ever be together on a permanent basis, it was illegal.  Her descendants married Christian men, took on the role of being Christian, and raised their children that way.  That is the story of my family that I was told.  I was also told that the last name of the Jewish man was Sasportas.  The name Sasportas can be found in a lot of places from the black slave owners book to leading slave revolts in the Caribbean.  

All in all, I should’ve been raised Jewish but was not.  I consider myself Judeo-Pagan, which means to me that I really should look at Kabbalah and no I don’t mean the commercialization that many celebrities have done but an authentic practice of Kabbalah.  From the Kabbalah Center Kabbalah is an ancient wisdom that reveals how the universe and life work. On a literal level, the word Kabbalah means “to receive.” It's the study of how to receive fulfillment in our lives.  I continue to observe and celebrate Jewish holidays and customs, and believe me this is not easy because there are so many.  The Hebrew name that I go by is Yadin and I’ve joined a Jude-Pagan study group and after I complete my doctorate program I will start Hebrew school.  You may understand this but I believe that being spiritually aware in one’s own right can bring fulfillment in your life and the lives of others.  The only thing I ask is not to put one’s religion on anyone else and respect anyone’s decision to pray as they wish. 

Now I feel a bit better because of my new found spirituality.  Having the support of my family, friends and readers really means a lot to me. 


Other Jews out there may not accept me because I didn’t go through certain channels the traditional way, but that is on them if they would like to take that in.  

Monday, June 20, 2016

Justin's HIV Journal: Justin's 10 Year Anniversary living with HIV



It has been 10 years since I’ve been diagnosed with HIV.  I’ve changed HIV medications twice and my body seems to like the latest one far better than the other two regimens I was on.  I seem to have been dealing with things that have come along with being infected with HIV rather well.  Physically I didn’t expect to get Rosacea but I’m keeping it under control by trying to avoiding things that I really like to eat and drink.  I did break out into hives on my arms one time and it was intolerable to the point where I was screaming in pain but that went away when I took an inflammatory.   


Since having HIV is have earned an Associate’s in Communications, a Bachelor’s in Political Science, a Master’s in Public Health and now I’m in school to get my Doctorate in Public Health.  During those 10 years I’ve gotten married and have two sons by adoption, Lundyn and Tavis.  All in all, I’m happy and I’m doing well.  10 years down and as many years as it takes to find a cure to go.  

Just*in Time HIV Advice Column #‎HIV‬ vs. ‪#‎AIDS‬ a reader writes in w/ concern June Issue of A&U Magazine

#‎HIV‬ vs. ‪#‎AIDS‬ a reader writes in w/ concern The latest JUST*IN TIME by #JustinTerrySmith

To see June Advise column from A&U Magazine please click on the link below

bit.ly/28JKQLh 



Sunday, June 12, 2016

Texas Lt Gov Dan Patrick's Tweets & Pulse Night Club!



In Orlando Florida about 2am on 6/12/2016 a gunman entered the (Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual and Transgender) LGBT club called the Pulse and opened fire killing approximately 50 patrons.  Just hours after the mass shooting Texas Lt Gov. Dan Patrick an avid anti-LGBT campaigner sent out a tweet saying, "Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows." just hours after a mass shooting, which is from the Bible and found in Galatians 6:7.  Representatives for the lieutenant governor said the post were prescheduled and that Patrick and other statewide officials usually share Bible verses on social media on Sunday mornings. 


 The tweet was deleted around 11:00 a.m. Sunday.  The Texas' Democratic Party responded by calling on Patrick to apologize immediately.  Patrick campaign spokesman Allen Blakemore strongly denied the tweet was in any way related to the Orlando shooting and that Patrick was currently out of the country.

Whether accident or not, why has it taken this long to get an apology from him? What is the hold up?  You are a major _ _ _ hole, no doubt.

Thursday, May 5, 2016

Just*in Time HIV Advice Column: Why tailored outreach is important in #HIV education #gaymenofcolor #JustinBTerrySmith


Justin -
This is in response to the expected HIV infections in the Black Gay population that I saw in one of your posts.  It cited stats from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) that fifty percent Black men will [likely] test positive as will thirty percent of Hispancis.  My question is:  Are we doing the right outreach in light of this prediction and, if not, what should we be doing?
- Bob Doyle

To see Justin B Terry-Smith' answer to Bob's question click on the link below

http://www.aumag.org/2016/04/27/justin-time-april-2016/
or 

Friday, February 26, 2016

We should NOT stigmatize people who choose to utilize #PrEP


Justin B Terry-Smith's explains in his HIV advice column Just*in Time in A&U: America's AIDS Magazine​ why We should NOT stigmatize people who choose to utilize #PrEP.


Question:

Justin—
We have been friends (on Facebook) for a while and we met [as fellow members of] the leather community when you were Mr. Maryland Leather 2010. However, I would appreciate it if you keep my identity secret, seeing as how we are both well known in the leather community as well.
Well, I noticed that there is a spike in syphilis cases among gay men, especially in the leather community. Do you think that has anything to do with pre-exposure prophylaxis (PrEP)? My next question is about post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP). In your opinion do you think that PEP gives people permission to have sex with others and then go get the pill the next morning?
—Old Guard Leather DADDY
Click the link below to see how Justin answered this reader's question:
http://www.aumag.org/2016/02/26/justin-time-february-2016/

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Man on PrEP is infected with HIV


For the first time Scientist have now seen its first case of an individual contracting the Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) while being compliant with taking Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP) daily.  The HIV strain that they were exposed to is supposedly a multi-drug resistant strain.  In other words, the strain of HIV that the person who was taking PrEP, is resistant to many levels of HIV medications.  So this doesn’t surprise me because the strain is HIV drug resistant because PrEP is 92% effective in preventing HIV transmission, so it isn’t 100% but neither is using a condom.  

Unfortunately, the only thing that is 100% effective is abstinence and that is farfetched to try to even preach that message.  PrEP has been approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA) since July 16, 2012.  I would say 4 years of no HIV infections for those that are compliant with taking PrEP is a huge step for public health in eradicating the threat of HIV transmission. 

A 43-year-old man who has sex with men (MSM) who had been taking PrEP 24 months before his HIV test provided a positive result.  The researchers gave him a blood spot test in order to determine whether or not he had stayed compliant to PrEP, which it was inferred that the patient was compliant.  Test also concluded that his HIV medication resistant strain that he was infected by was indeed from only 1 person and not because of mutation of another strain of HIV after transmission.  The patient is now being put on Tivicay (dolutegravir), Prezcobix (darunavir/cobicistat), and Edurant (rilpivirine), and continues to have an undetectable viral load. 

Prep (Truvada) is made up of two medications tenofovir and emtricitabine.  In the world right now if someone is infected with HIV they usually either have resistance to tenofovir or emtricitabine.  But they usually almost never have resistance to both tenofovir and emtricitabine at the same time. 

The data was made public knowledge at the 2016 Conference on Retroviruses and Opportunistic Infections (CROI) in Boston by HIV Specialist Dr. David Knox

HIV Smart Campaign




Justin B Terry-Smith Justin's HIV Journal
Ryan Colford Founder and President 
I was on Facebook when I first heard of and saw the HIV Smart Campaign and became very curious about what was its meaning.  As many HIV campaigns have become a part of social media this HIV campaign is the first of its kind that I’ve seen since PrEP was created.  I attended photoshoots in Baltimore and in Washington DC, both with good turn outs.  The pictures are meant to be shared on all social media including Facebook, Instagram and Twitter.  This campaign raises awareness on how we mentally see people with HIV and HIV itself.  While the mission is that people think smarter (hence the glasses) about HIV, it reduces HIV stigma at the same time.  It also makes not only the target population of gay men and MSM but the general population think about the benefits of PrEP and PEP.  Working with photographer Ryan Colford was amazing and he is amazing. 

HIV Smart was created by founder and President Ryan Colford, “to dispel ignorance because of all the disinformation still being circulated to the public in an age of technology. Real facts need to be known, and should be shared.”

For more information, please visit the HIV Smart Website: http://hivsmart.org/
To donate to the HIV Smart Campaign: https://www.gofundme.com/hivsmart

HIV Smart is a newly developed nonprofit organization that focuses on education about preventative methods (PrEP/PEP), education about risk behaviors, advocating HIV testing and the importance of knowing your status. HIV Smart also creates awareness about the serious link between people living with HIV and depression, and last but definitely not least, places an emphasis on fighting stigma.

The heart of HIV Smart campaign is a social media photo campaign. We encourage everyone to use their pictures across all forms of social media from Facebook to Instagram to Twitter. The recognizable imagery will help to raise awareness through increased visibility and foster real intelligent conversations relaying true facts and dispelling myths. These conversations will cover the challenges associated with the virus and stress the importance of treating all people with dignity and compassion.
Justin B Terry-Smith
Mr Maryland Leather 2010
Our goals are to create multiple photo events in each of the 50 states with a large focus on the top 5 states with the highest transmission rates (New York, Florida, California, Georgia, and Texas). We hope that each photo event will help educate everyone regardless of status, create more public awareness that it’s only disease, and reinforce that shame of any sort should never be associated with HIV.  He developed the idea of forming the organization, corresponding website, and blending it with his talents as a photographer by adding a social media photo campaign.


In Washington DC the HIV Smart Campaign was hosted by            Mr. DC Eagle 2016


In New York the HIV Smart Campaign was hosted by            Mr. New York Eagle 2016
In Baltimore the HIV Smart Campaign was hosted by                Mr. Maryland Leather 2016

Tuesday, January 26, 2016

Justin & Phil Adopt 2nd Son and 1st Son moves Out!!



Being HIV positive I near thought I would have any children at all.  We adopted another son when he was 17. I can’t believe I couldn’t mention before but I believe it was because of legalities.  But he is ours.  He just turned 18 and wants to learn how to drive.  He had made friends with our other son when they went to high school together.  Well his name is Tavis and he found his way to our house one day with bags in hand.  We took to him immediately and welcomed him with open arms into our family.  He is gay just like our first son.  Speaking of our first son he has flown the coup and is now making a way for himself in the real world.  It felt like just yesterday I was getting calls every day from his high school, BUT we nipped that in the bud fairly quickly.  He matured has a boyfriend and is making his way in the world.  All I can do is hope he becomes a good man, which I’m positive he will.  BUT I will say this no two is enough.  My husband and I have decided that we are getting our tubes tides and that’s that.  LOL Anyways we are a happy family and things are going well.  LOVE YOU GUYS and COMMENT DOWN BELOW. 

Monday, December 21, 2015

Justin Goes to Puerto Rico (Walden University Residency)


One of my favorite places as of right now is Puerto Rico.  I was there because I am currently in school for my Doctorate in Public Health at Walden University.  I had a choice between Puerto Rico or Tampa.  Of course I choose Puerto Rico.  I took my husband Philip and left the kids at home.  We need some time for a vacation.  Honestly when I was diagnosed with HIV I didn’t expect to live this long or be in school for a Doctoral degree and I have one more year left.  My husband has really been my rock and inspiration. 

We stayed in a cute hotel named the Coral Princess, not far from the Beach in Condado (Santurce).  Condado (Santurce) is a great place.  It has the population of a little over 6,000 and has a big gay community It was just an amazing beautiful area.  We also went Boquerón, Cabo Rojo which was amazing.  Boquerón is a beach village located in the city of Cabo Rojo.  The village is one of the main tourist attractions in the southwestern part of the island, which has an awesome gay community.  The population there is about 5,000.  We saw the salt beaches there and walked along the beach.  We then went to Castillo San Felipe del Morro in Viejo San Juan or Old San Juan it was so festive and beautiful.  One of my favorite places was El Yunque National Forest.  It was my first time being in a Rain Forest it was absolutely a wondrous time, I felt like a little boy in a candy store.  When then stayed at the Sheraton in San Juan at the end of our trip.


HIV should not dictate where you can’t go but you can let it take you to places you’ve never been.  I was so distraught 10 years ago when I was diagnosed, but I turned around and got back on my feet.  I now I know that I can still go places I can still enjoy life.  

Food and Drug Administration (FDA) has lifted its ban on blood donations from gay men





The Food and Drug Administration has lifted its ban on blood donations from gay men.  The ban has been in place for 32 years.  So yeah we can give blood now.  Thank you to the FDA.  BUT there is a stipulation.  To give blood to the FDA you must be abstinent for one year prior to giving blood.  Hmmmmmmmm no sex for a year……nope sorry not me.  The abstinent rule is also in place in countries such as the United Kingdom and Australia.  The ban was put into place during the early years of the AIDS crisis.  With medicine and science making strides activist and medical group see the ban as unjustifiable.

Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Actor Charlie Sheen is HIV Positive


Charlie Sheen announced he is HIV positive.  During the interview with Matt Lauer on NBC’s “Today” shows, saying that he wanted to put a stop “to this onslaught, this barrage of attacks.”

He had paid millions to keep people quiet and has faced lawsuits from previous partners.  Sheen said that he will not be paying anyone any more money after today because he has disclosed publically.  The news had already received this story the day before his disclosure. 
The 50 year old actor admits to hiring prostitutes and extensive drug use, which was made public by tabloids and newspapers. 

This story proves that HIV is not a gay or black issue.  HIV is a global public health issue.  By disclosing on his own I hope this gives him empowerment and inspiration to help others in the future with their HIV diagnosis.  Currently Sheen is on a four pill a day HIV medication regimen and is currently undetectable. 

When asked whether he would stop drinking, Mr. Sheen said that “perhaps the freedom of today may lead to that as well.”


My hopes for Sheen is that he lives a long healthy life and to let him know that now you are a part of community that can empower you to be the best Charlie Sheen you can be.  I back Charlie Sheen.

Monday, September 28, 2015

Who's the Boss? star Danny Pintauro, comes out as HIV positive






On the Oprah: Where Are The Now? 39 years old former child star of the show Who's the Boss? Danny Pintauro, came out this past weekend as HIV positive.  It turns out that Pintauro has been living with HIV for 12 years.  One the show Who’s the Boss?  Pintauro played the role of Johnathan.  When Pintauro was 17 he came out as gay while attending Stanford University.  A tabloid forced him to come out because they were going to run with the story about his sexuality whether he liked it or not.  Pintauro stated this about the forced outing, "I missed the opportunity to be a beacon of light for gay kids who were going through what I was going through because I was outed; it wasn't by choice,”  This time Pintauro is coming out as HIV positive and wanted to do it when he was ready.  When learning about his HIV status Pintauro said this, "You've spent so much time terrified that you're going to get it," he says, "and then you have it, and you don't have to be terrified anymore."
Pintauro is now happily married to Wil Tabares. The couple married in 2014.
Reference:


Wednesday, September 9, 2015

The Well Beyond HIV Art Exhibit



2015 marked the beginning of a new era in the evolution of HIV. Of the estimated 1.2 million Americans with HIV, one-third are over 50 years old; within 2015, half of the total HIV-positive population will be over 50 years old.[i]
The exhibit, curated in collaboration with Walgreens and The Graying of AIDS, focuses on the challenges and triumphs of this aging HIV community through captivating portraits and insightful testimonials.
The Well Beyond HIV art exhibit will be on public display September 10th an 11th  from 11am-6pm  at the Carnegie Library – Literary Hall, 801 K Street NW, Washington, DC 20001 – We encourage you to stop by if you have a chance.
If interested we ask that you also encourage your followers to:
·        Visit the exhibit
·        Share link to the Well Beyond HIV Tumblr www.WellBeyondHIV.com
·        Join the conversation using the #WellBeyond hashtag

In the meantime, please let me know if you have any questions or need additional information.
Thanks!
Meg Poulelis
On behalf of Walgreens

Monday, March 30, 2015

Justin's HIV Journal: Justin earns his Master's Degree in Public Health and MORE GOOD NEWS!!


It is official I’ve earned my Master’s in Public Health.  Now I can officially say I’m a Public Health professional.  After 2 ½ years of school work I’ve accomplished what I set out to accomplished.  It was a big goal for me to finally get this obstacle out of way.  Having HIV I want you all to know you cannot let it get in your way.  

REACH YOUR GOAL AND MAKE YOUR DREAMS COME TRUE.  

People need to understand that HIV is NOT the end of your life.  You need to keep moving and live your life to the best of your abilities.   When I found out I had HIV school was the furthest thing from my mind.  But now it has helped me get a new job that is amazing.  I am now a Global Public Health Analyst.  As a present my loving husband bought me a new car.  He is an amazing man and has stuck by me through my Associates and Bachelor’s degree as well. 



GRADUATION IS IN JULY IN BALTIMORE!!

But most of you know I can’t stop there I will be attempting to earn my Doctorate in Public Health.



Sunday, February 22, 2015

Justin's HIV Journal: Attacked on Grindr & Slut-Shaming






I got a notification on my phone from my Grindr application so I click on it to check the message.  This guy immediately started with, “Really Justin?”  I then didn't understand what he was referring to, so I replied, “Really what?”  He then went on to say that he was disappointed in me for having my HIV status at the bottom of my Grindr profile and that I was once his hero and etc.  I just couldn't believe this.  All I could do was block the immaturity out and off my phone. 

1)   There are people on Grindr that don’t even say their status

2)  One of the first things I put is that I’m married and that my husband knows I have this application on my phone

3)  It’s really none of your business what I’m doing in my own bedroom but I’m open about my HIV status to all sexual partners – FYI.

4)  If the basis of me not being your role model HIV positive activist is that my status is at the bottom of my Grindr profile than find another HIV activist to follow because you've been following me for the wrong reasons. 

The article below can be found on Baltimore Gay Life Newspaper:

Many people this holiday season will get what they want and what they don’t want. My gift to you this year, dear reader, is the gift of purity. Many of us think of the word purity and automatically think of virginity. I am by no means a virgin, and neither are the majority of you reading this column. With that idea in mind, I ask – why on earth do we engage in slut shaming?
At the recent Mr. Maryland Leather contest one of the contestants gave a speech about slut shaming in the gay community and I was truly touched. He talked about how two of his friends had committed suicide because of the constant slut shaming (which is another form of bullying) they endured from their so-called friends.
As I do every year, I took the stage with all the former Mr. Maryland Leathers, and as my name was being called I heard the words, “Whore” being yelled at me. I stopped and realized that this was not right because to look on my husband’s face was the look of embarrassment and shame. When the contest was over, I marched up to those three people and told them to stop slut shaming me. The whole time I thought to myself this doesn’t just affect me but it affects my husband. If they don’t have any respect for me at least respect my husband and in turn respect my marriage. I really didn’t deserve it, neither did my husband or my son.
For HIV negative people, slut shaming can lead to a lowered self-esteem, which could make them at greater risk of contracting HIV. Having people shame you because of your sexual appetites only leads you to keep them secret and pushes them back into the closet. This also can be said for people who use preventative measure like Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP). People think because you are on PrEP means that you do not use a condom and you have promiscuous sex, which is not the case at all because this is a form of HIV prevention.
People will do with their own bodies as they would like and it is not up to us to tell them what to do. It takes two (sometimes more) to tango and if it’s consensual then who the hell are you to tell them what they cannot do.
I suggest to all of you reading this column to keep that in mind before you shame someone into thinking that what they do sexually is wrong. People need to wake up to the ways of the world and get their head out of their behinds and other people’s personal lives; because frankly it’s none of your damn slut shaming business
Reference:

Terry-Smith, J. (2014) Baltimore Gay Life Newspaper. The Gift of Purity and Slut Shaming. Retrieved from http://baltimoregaylife.com/slut-shaming/



Monday, December 8, 2014

Tuesday, November 25, 2014

Justin's HIV Journal HIV POSITIVE FATHERS DISCUSS FATHERHOOD !!

HIV POSITIVE FATHERS DISCUSS FATHERHOOD !!

(Me and a couple of other HIV positive fathers discuss what it's like being a Dad on TheBody.com ) #JustinBTerrySmith


Click on the link to find out what we had to say:
http://www.thebody.com/content/75227/hiv-positive-dads-discuss-fatherhood-a-spotlight-s.html?ic=7001

Monday, November 24, 2014

JACK MACKENROTH'S ANTI HIV STIGMA CAMPAIGN #weareALLclean

JACK MACKENROTH'S ANTI HIV STIGMA CAMPAIGN
#weareALLclean
Friend and fellow HIV Activist Jack Mackenroth has come up with an amazing way to combat HIV Stigma.

In social media and dating sites (especially in the gay community) we hear, "I'm clean" meaning I don't have HIV and I'm STI (Sexually Transmitted Infection) free. These words, "I'm clean" only further stigmatized people living with HIV.  "I'm clean" gives the perception that people living with HIV are somehow dirty.  This is an awesome HIV Campaign and I'm very proud to participate.  Here are INSTRUCTIONS on how you can become apart of his movement.  

INSTRUCTIONS:
1) Take a  selfie or Vine video of yourself in the shower.** NO EXPLICIT NUDITY**
2) Post your photo on Moovz and all social media platforms with the caption "Take HIV Shower Selfie Challenge raise $$ for AIDS cure bit.ly/CUREAIDS #weareALLclean"
3) Challenge 3 or more other people to participate!
4) (Optional) DONATE!! Please consider a small donation if you are able. Every penny counts! bit.ly/CUREAIDS
5) On World AIDS Day: Monday, December 1st, please change all your social media profile pix to your shower selfie photo and spread the word!!
For more information contact: Jack Mackenroth Jackmax2@gmail.com

Jack Mackenroth
Justin Terry-Smith

Justin's HIV Journal: HIV Equal Campaign (Father and Son Team Up)

Justin's HIV Journal was very happy to help out in the HIV Equal Campaign along side the DC Center and Whitman Walker Health. 

The point of this campaign is to show that YES we ALL have an HIV status...Do you know yours?

HIV Equal is an international multimedia campaign that aims to end HIV stigma and promote HIV testing by creating a social art movement that changes the way people think about HIV and which reopens the national dialogue about HIV.

 My son Lundyn was very proud to participate.  
He knows how important it is for one to know their HIV Status

RuPaul's Drag Race Star APRIL carrión

Scott Nevins from Bravo's The People's Couch were in attendance as well

APRIL carrión and I

Scott Nevins and I



Tuesday, September 16, 2014

ANNOUNCEMENT: Looking for South African participants for HIV Campaign.

ANNOUNCEMENT: Looking for South African participants for HIV Campaign. They can be HIV negative or positive. Looking for a very diverse group of people of all walks of life and languages. Apply from within (meaning send me a private message on Facebook or to my e-mail jsmithco98@hotmail.com). PLEASE SHARE!!

Monday, September 15, 2014

Justin's HIV Journal via thebody.com Ed Barron Is Not HIV Positive, He's a Person Living With AIDS and Complications (video)

Justin's HIV Journal via thebody.com Ed Barron Is Not HIV Positive, He's a Person Living With AIDS and Complications (video)

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